Hello. I’ll be sending out some film recommendations sometime this week. I have a list of old films I love (before 2000) and French films.Â
One of my favorite things to do is make playlists for each season and each mood. For example, jazzy christmas playlists, autumn in new york, sad girl season, jazzy nyc dinner parties, etc.Â
It seems early, but I’m already curating new years eve and sad girl songs for the dead of winter type of playlists. Stay tuned.Â
Today’s tea:
-The Best Way To Comfort Someone When They’re Sad
The article emphasizes the power of validation and carefully chosen words in comforting others, underscoring that phrases like "I understand why you feel that way" are more effective than suggesting someone simply calm down. It also highlights the importance of tailoring emotional support to individual needs, whether it's through validation or problem-solving, and reminds us that the effort to help, even if imperfect, is often deeply appreciated.
-The Ladies of Nymphet Alumni Are Firmly Pro-Piracy
The Interview Magazine article about Nymphet Alumni delves into the unique blend of historical knowledge and forward-thinking insight of its hosts, Sam, Biz, and Alexi. Their podcast, known for dissecting cultural phenomena and setting trends like the "Blokette" style, embodies a fusion of nostalgia and innovation, showcasing their journey from online connections to influential voices in contemporary culture.
-@Sotce on Girlhood, Guardian Angels, and Her Google Searches
The enigmatic @Sotce, the young internet sage's mystical allure is explored through her unique blend of Buddhist philosophy and hyper-specific memes, attracting a diverse following intrigued by her introspective takes on life and spirituality. Despite her growing online fame, @Sotce remains an elusive figure, weaving a tapestry of cryptic messages and profound insights that leave her audience both captivated and curious about the true person behind the persona.
-Why Amazon Should Buy Farfetch
This article explores the tumultuous situation at Farfetch, a leading e-commerce platform for luxury fashion, as it faces financial challenges and speculation about its future. Amidst its strategic struggles, including a failed deal with Richemont and uncertainties with Alibaba, the article posits that an acquisition by Amazon could be a strategic move, leveraging Amazon's vast customer base and logistical strengths to bolster Farfetch's position in the luxury market and potentially transforming Amazon's foothold in the high-end fashion sector.
-A Lost Interview With Clarice Lispector
The article recounts an intriguing encounter with Júlio Lerner, a key figure in the legacy of Brazilian writer Clarice Lispector, capturing the profound impact of Lispector's presence and work on individuals and the literary world. It delves into the peculiar dynamics of Lispector's fame, characterized by a blend of reverence and obsession, as seen through the eyes of those captivated by her enigmatic persona and the profound depth of her literary contributions.
-Never Rely On A Man’s Money
This article tells a deeply personal and transformative journey of a woman who, in the midst of a tumultuous divorce, discovers the empowerment of financial independence and self-reliance. It narrates her evolution from a state of financial dependence and vulnerability in her marriage to a newfound sense of autonomy, underscored by the poignant metaphor of her driving home through the rain, symbolizing her passage through hardship towards a more self-assured and independent life.
-Give Fran Lebowitz An Aisle Seat
Fran Lebowitz, a notable New York personality and author, shares her candid and often humorous views on a range of topics, from public speaking etiquette to living in New York. Known for her sharp wit and outspoken opinions, Lebowitz offers a glimpse into her life, including her aversion to modern technology and her straightforward approach to audience interactions during her speaking events, reflecting her unique perspective on life and culture.
This text explores the fluidity of gender and literary style, suggesting both are performative constructs shaped by societal norms and historical context, exemplified by George Eliot's unique blending of male and female literary traditions in her writing. It challenges the notion of inherent gendered styles, proposing instead that styles evolve through imitation and societal influences, as seen in Eliot's work under a male pseudonym.
-The Dream of a Universal Library
The article discusses the complex dynamics of digital information access and its implications: The transition from the idealistic vision of the World Wide Web and Google's promise of a digitized Library of Alexandria to the current landscape, marked by legal entanglements, copyright struggles, and the tension between democratization and commercialization, illustrates a paradoxical journey in the realm of knowledge access. It underscores the intricate interplay between technological aspirations, intellectual property laws, and the ongoing battle between open access and the monopolistic tendencies of academic publishing, reflecting both the potential and the pitfalls of digitization in democratizing information.
That’s all for now.Â
Bye <3
(Ps. Go get one (or two) of these today with extra olives)
i love namwali’s NYRB writing so much!