lately in nyc, girlhood and bows is everywhere <3, and other interesting articles
Hello.Â
A recap of yesterday and some interesting articles.
Lately in NYC
Yesterday sparked a lot of joy~
-In the morning, I went on a walk and got an americano and a small cookie from Sant Ambroeus.
-I visited my favorite stationery shop (Niconeco) and saw a ceramic cat I wanted to buy, but didn’t. Maybe I’ll come back for it.Â
-I went next door to From Lucie’s bakery for a slice of pumpkin bread. (I wanted gingerbread, but the pumpkin was close enough and it was so delicious).
-I stopped by Sandy Liang to get bonnet (v high on my wishlist) because originally, I was wearing a hat that was way too tight on my head and I needed to take it off, but my hair was atrocious and I was really hoping the bonnet was in stock because I’ve been eyeing it for awhile. Honestly it was one of the best purchases I’ve made all year. I also got the black knee high socks with bows.
-I also got a chocolate colored Maileg bunny at Salter House. I named him Francis. (I will be going back this week to get the Forest Green day dress with the matching corset.
-I ate olives and bread with butter at Corner Bar because I wanted a snack.
-I went to the Six Bells popup in Soho. It was so cute and their Christmas trees had bows all over it.
-I went back home to change my clothes and ate strawberries.
-Then I met a friend at The Mark Chateau to eat fondue.
<3
Some articles:
-Your Honor, I’m Literally Just A Girl <3
This title!!!!
The article explores the trend of "girl dressing" in fashion. It delves into how this style, characterized by items like bows and Mary Janes, reflects a blend of innocence and youthful charm. It questions the motivations behind this trend, such as a desire for regression or self-expression, and discusses its prevalence in internet culture and its representation in recent fashion collections.Â
-Everything You Know About Corsets Is False
Valerie Steele, director of The Museum at the Fashion Institute of Technology, challenges common misconceptions about corsets in fashion history. Contrary to popular belief, she explains that tight-lacing to extremely small waist sizes was rare and that corsets were not as health-damaging as often portrayed. Additionally, Steele highlights that women chose to wear corsets of their own volition, primarily for fashion and status, rather than being forced by men. The evolution of corset styles over centuries reflects changes in fashion and societal norms, from enhancing curves to facilitating newer, freer forms of dressing.
-Today’s Masculinity Is Stifling
The article discusses a parent's experience with their son's choice to wear dresses, challenging traditional gender norms. It highlights the societal pressure and misconceptions surrounding boys expressing themselves through traditionally feminine attire. The story reflects on broader issues of gender identity, societal expectations, and the need for a more inclusive understanding of masculinity. It emphasizes the importance of allowing children to explore their identity freely, without being confined by rigid gender roles.
-What Is Your Attachment Style? Gen Z’s New Obsession
A discussion about Gen Z's growing interest in attachment theory, a psychological framework explaining relationship styles based on early childhood experiences. With the rise of social media discussions and books on the topic, young people are using attachment styles—secure, anxious, avoidant, disorganized—to understand themselves and their partners better, replacing traditional methods like astrology for relationship compatibility. This trend, which gained traction during the pandemic, is seen as both a tool for self-awareness and a potential oversimplification of complex human dynamics
-The Rise Of The $20 Erewhon Smoothie
The GQ article discusses the rise of the $20 Erewhon Smoothie, particularly the "Strawberry Skin Glaze" made famous by Hailey Bieber and TikTok. This trend symbolizes a mix of consumer luxury and unattainable wellness, reflecting a fascination with Los Angeles culture. The smoothie's popularity, blending exclusive ingredients and high prices, represents a cultural phenomenon, intertwining celebrity influence, social media virality, and consumer behavior.
-Natasha Stagg Enjoys A Well-Written Menu
The Grub Street Diet article features author Natasha Stagg, who shares her food experiences and reflections while navigating New York City's culinary scene. Stagg, known for her cultural critiques, indulges in various dining adventures, ranging from local favorites to high-end dishes, tying her experiences with food to her personal life and broader cultural observations. Her journey includes a mix of emotional and gastronomic encounters, highlighting how food intertwines with memories, emotions, and social dynamics.Â
-Let the Kids Get Weird: The Adult Problem With Children’s Books
The article discusses the adult influence on children's books, arguing that these books often reflect adult nostalgia and moral views rather than children's perspectives. It explores the trend of creating books that are more appealing to adults, such as celebrity-authored works or books with social and moral themes. The article highlights the need for children's literature that embraces the strange and imaginative nature of childhood, free from the adult's conceptual constraints.
-This Is How Winter Should Smell
The exploration of the intricate and vivid world of scents, particularly those associated with winter. It discusses the nostalgic and evocative power of fragrances, blending organic and artificial aromas to paint a sensory picture of the season. The author reflects on personal experiences and memories linked to various smells, from artificial candy flavors to natural scents, and how these influence their choice of fragrances for the winter season.Â
I love you and I love that you’re here.
Bye <3
You have inspired me to purchase a vintage fondue pot for Christmas. This winter I will eat all the cheese. Also! Your bonnet reminds me of one I knitted myself a few years ago. Need to go dig it out of my closet!