love letter from my hotel room, manifestation dressing, what the ultra rich wear to the grocery store, and more
Hello.
Did you enjoy your weekend?
I’m writing to you from a fancy hotel room and I feel like a princess.
Are you fond of hotels, too?
Staying at a hotel is the only time I allow my virgo-like tendencies to fall by the wayside. I’ll wake up and romanticize eating a fancy breakfast in bed (not too heavy- something simple like or a broiled grapefruit topped with bruleed sugar, a pastry of some sort, orange juice and hot coffee) while reading a book and the paper. I don’t make the bed in the morning. I take long, luxurious everything showers- basically the antithesis of my regular morning routine that consists of a blaring 5:45am alarm, a cardio heavy workout, a strict tidying up/ getting ready routine then a frantic dash to work. I’m undeniably a perfectionist in the most annoying virgo-like way. But alas, I’m here in this hotel room writing to you and my entire aura inside and out is calm and content.
I’ll be sending out substack publications I love and recommend in tomorrow’s newsletter so stay tuned for that.
Until then, I’m going to enjoy the rest of this morning reading and writing.
Today’s News:
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The paradox of rest, as explored by Alex Soojung-Kim Pang, lies in its essential yet elusive nature in our high-speed, productivity-obsessed culture, challenging us to reconceptualize rest not as a luxury or afterthought but as a crucial, active component of a fulfilling and sustainable life. This reevaluation demands a disciplined approach to integrating rest into our daily routines, leveraging it not only as a counterbalance to work but as a vital ingredient for creativity, longevity, and overall well-being, thereby transforming rest from an art to a science in the quest for a balanced existence.
Time
Think Twice Before Taking The Top Job
The cautionary tale of climbing to the top job as depicted highlights the paradox of leadership, where the allure of status and authority often belies the emotional and psychological tolls such as loneliness and heightened stress, challenging the conventional narrative that equates professional advancement with personal fulfillment and underscoring the importance of introspection and self-awareness in career aspirations. This narrative serves as a reminder that the pursuit of high-ranking positions should be tempered with an understanding of the inherent challenges and personal sacrifices involved, urging individuals to weigh the holistic implications of such roles on their well-being and happiness.
Atlantic
Simone Rocha on Making Her Couture Debut With Jean Paul Gaultier
Simone Rocha's debut with Jean Paul Gaultier for the Spring/Summer 2024 season showcases a blend of their distinct styles. Rocha emphasizes femininity, Victoriana, and craftsmanship in her collection. The designs are a modern reflection of the couture tradition, with a focus on artisanal rather than red-carpet looks. Key elements include Gaultier corsets, delicate flowers, and signature Rocha bows, combining to create a contemporary yet historical dialogue between the two designers' identities. Rocha's approach highlights the importance of identity in fashion, making the collection feel uniquely relevant to the present.
How To Rizz (For The Lonely Weeb): Derpycon
This vividly detailed narrative provides an immersive exploration of Derpycon, capturing the essence of a multi-genre convention through the lens of a curious attendee. The writer artfully intertwines observations of cosplay culture, the nuances of otaku fandom, and the interplay of contemporary and traditional elements within the convention. From the meticulous regulation of cosplay weapons to the eclectic mix of panels, vendors, and attendees, the article paints a colorful picture of a unique subculture where fantasy, creativity, and community converge.
Coming Of Age: Representing The Older Generation
In this essay, the author critically examines the fashion industry's portrayal of aging, highlighting the trend of 'ageless' models and its implications. They argue that this approach often negates the reality of aging and promotes an unattainable standard of enduring youthfulness, calling for more authentic representation of older individuals in fashion.
Why Rich People Don’t Cover Their Windows
This article examines the trend among wealthy individuals to leave their windows uncovered, an emerging status symbol in high-end homes. The lack of curtains or shades in affluent neighborhoods is not just about aesthetic choices, but also reflects a class-driven approach to privacy and security. Wealthy homeowners often have large homes with multiple rooms and windows, offering both natural light and privacy. Additionally, with access to advanced security systems, they feel less need for window coverings as a protective measure. Historically, window coverings were essential for privacy and considered a necessity, but in modern affluent circles, open windows have become a subtle indicator of privilege, showcasing both confidence and stability.
Big Time Sensuality: AnOther's Most Intimate Style Moments
In this essay, the author explores the evolution of Valentine's Day traditions and their relationship to modern expressions of sensuality and intimacy. They highlight five instances of extraordinary sensuality from AnOther's archive, showcasing diverse and nuanced depictions of sensuality that move beyond conventional Valentine's Day symbols like heart-shaped chocolates and cards. These moments range from Man Ray's photographs of muse Adrienne Fidelin, embodying natural ease and eroticism, to Robi Rodriguez and Jacob K's fetish-inspired imagery, representing a more adventurous and unconventional take on sensuality.
What The Ultrarich Wear To The Grocery Store
The "Class of Palm Beach" social media phenomenon represents a modern intersection of fashion and digital voyeurism, where the opulent lifestyles of the wealthy are both idolized and scrutinized through the lens of luxury fashion. This trend underscores a broader societal fascination with affluence and status, amplified by the accessibility and visual-centric nature of platforms like Instagram and TikTok.
Crystal Hefner's journey from being Hugh Hefner's wife to finding her own identity post-Playboy Mansion is a poignant narrative of transformation and self-discovery. Her memoir "Only Say Good Things: Surviving Playboy and Finding Myself" serves as a cathartic medium for her to process past traumas and redefine her life away from the shadow of the Playboy legacy. This transition from a life characterized by external control and objectification to one of personal empowerment and boundary-setting reflects a deeper societal dialogue about autonomy, identity, and the complex dynamics of power in relationships.
What We Discovered On Deep YouTube
The discovery of the vast and largely unseen "Deep YouTube" underscores the platform's evolution from a mere video-sharing site to a pivotal piece of 21st-century communication infrastructure, revealing its integral role not just in content creation but as an essential archive and conduit for a myriad of human activities. This exploration into YouTube's hidden depths challenges our perceptions of digital platforms, urging a reevaluation of their role and impact on society, beyond the realms of entertainment and profit-driven content, to their foundational significance in our digital ecosystem.
Atlantic
Welcome To The Year Of Manifestation Dressing
"Manifestation dressing," as highlighted by Vogue, intertwines the power of personal attire with the law of attraction, proposing that our wardrobe choices can not only reflect but actively shape our aspirations and goals, transforming fashion into a dynamic tool for visualizing and pursuing one's desired future. This concept elevates clothing beyond mere aesthetics or function, embedding it with the potential to influence our life's trajectory, blending style with intentionality to curate a wardrobe that mirrors and molds our ambitions.
Vogue
I love you.
See you tomorrow.
Bye.
