march wishlist, sally rooney's new novel, and men finally admitting that pilates is, like, really hard
Hello.
Since March is here, I’m going to share my March wishlist.
-Diptyque Philosykos solid perfume: I’m a fig girl. I love love love fig candles and fig notes in fragrance. It gives milky, green/ clean/ vegetal, light fruity feelings. It feels warm but also fresh. I’m rambling. Apart from this solid perfume smelling so good (which by the way pairs SO deliciously with Diptyque’s EDP Eau Duelle fragrance), the cover of this solid perfume is of a fig tree and it reminds me of that famous Sylvia Plath fig tree quote that I love so dearly. I don’t know, it just feels special and maybe I’m too sentimental sometimes, but I love this and I need it to be mine.
-Diptyque Philosykos body milk: Okay so this body milk pairs perfectly with the solid perfume ^ (I must also mention that I did not like the Philosykos regular perfume. It’s a little too green for me), but the body milk is perfect. It reminds me of spring and summer days, picking fruit, late afternoon picnics, and warm summer rain.
-Diptyque L’eau Papier Perfume: oh my god do I love this fragrance. Fun fact about me, if there’s a rice note count me in. If there’s a milk note, count me in. This fragrance is worn like a second skin. It’s so beautiful on it’s own, but when you layer it with Eau Duelle, it makes it even more delicious.
-Diptyque Eau Duelle Perfume (EDP): The most delicious decadent vanilla perfume. I was trying to stay away from vanilla fragrances for awhile, but this vanilla is too perfume not to have in my collection. Not only is it perfect on it’s own, but when I layer it with L’eau Papier and other scents like Philosykos, it just elevates it and makes it so inviting and beautiful.
-Medicube Age R Booster H facial tool: I’m a bit obsessed with skincare. I’ve had this tool on my radar and I’ve been wanting to try it because I wan’t glass skin okay?
-Dore facial ice roller: Another skincare tool I’ve had my eye on!
-Bibbly Bobbly Sheep Jellycat or Sheepdog Jellycat: You’re never too old for a stuffy. I’ve met both of these Jellycats in person and they’re so snuggly! The sheepdog is so lovable. It makes me want a real dog.
-Leatherology A5 Spiral Journal: I’ve been so bad about journaling this year. I literally have not journaled once. So this is my way of incentivizing pen to paper writing for my eyes only.
-Vintage Miu Miu reading glasses (and sunglasses): A long time wishlist item.
-GH Bass Loafers: These are finally on sale!
-New Bedding! I want to stick with Parachute because I’ve bought their bedding before and love it. But I also want something new and fun like a Projektityyny quilted blanket with matching pillows sort of vibe.
-Lorna nightgown from Salter House: Another long time wishlist item and this feels perfect for spring.
-Posture Pal bear plushie to help me so I don’t look like a cooked shrimp 🍤 when I sit at my desk.
I think that’s all?
And since Spring is right around the corner, I want to share a long thorough activity / bucket list that I’m manifesting for Spring: book recs, playlists, film recs, crafty things, things I want to buy, activities to do, etc. I’ll be sharing that at the end of this week so stay tuned.
Read with me:
Read The Opening Lines Of Sally Rooney’s Next Novel
Sally Rooney's "Intermezzo" promises to weave the intricate tapestries of human connection and introspection through the lives of two distinct brothers, unfolding against the backdrop of loss and the complex web of relationships that define us. With Rooney's signature exploration of emotional landscapes and the nuance of contemporary life, this novel is poised to become a new beacon for readers seeking depth, realism, and the beauty of flawed humanity wrapped in the warmth of familial bonds.
Lit Hub
The Mind-Boggling Simplicity Of Learning To Say ‘No’
In the intimate dance of life's demands and our own boundaries, the story shared is a tender exploration of learning to say no—a skill that's both profoundly simple and remarkably difficult. It's a thoughtful journey through personal and professional landscapes, where each no carves out space for a more authentic yes, teaching us that the art of refusal is not just about rejecting offers but about embracing the life we truly want to live.
The New York Times
Sexism In Medicine? It’s Not ‘All In Her Head’
Dr. Elizabeth Comen's experiences and insights shed light on a troubling yet intimate aspect of healthcare: the pervasive tendency of women to apologize for their own bodies and health concerns, a phenomenon deeply rooted in a historical context of medical misogyny. Through her book, "All in Her Head," Comen offers not only a critical analysis of how the medical establishment has historically diminished women's health issues but also a thoughtful, empowering guide on navigating a system that often fails to take women's symptoms seriously, advocating for a more informed, assertive approach to personal health.
The New York Times
A Guide To Starting Your Mental Health Journey
Starting your mental health journey involves recognizing your needs and overcoming initial barriers such as time, insurance, and fear of judgment. Navigating the mental health system can be complex, with challenges including finding the right therapist, understanding payment options, and determining the type of care that suits you best. It's important to approach this process with an open mind, acknowledging that seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness. Resources like the National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) and Mental Health America (MHA) offer guidance on beginning your mental health care, including tips on identifying symptoms, exploring treatment options, and finding support groups. Remember, the path to mental well-being is personal, and what works for one person may not work for another. The goal is to find a supportive and effective care plan that helps you navigate life's challenges more effectively.
Vox
This Is What Your Brain Does When You’re Not Doing Anything
The discovery of the default mode network (DMN) revealed that our brains remain active during rest, engaging areas involved in memory, self-reflection, and planning for the future. This network's identification marked a shift in neuroscience, emphasizing the interplay between brain networks over individual regions' roles. Research into the DMN has also explored its connection to mental health, underscoring the complexity of brain function and its impact on our psychological well-being.
Wired
Men Are Finally Wising Up To The Fact That Pilates Is The Hardest Workout There Is
Pilates, long perceived as a workout favored by women, is gaining popularity among men, including celebrities like Glen Powell, LeBron James, and Harry Styles, who all advocate for its challenging nature. The exercise method, founded by German gymnast Joseph Pilates, emphasizes posture, flexibility, and strength through controlled movements, either with equipment like reformers or just a mat. Pilates has been recognized for its benefits in professional sports, aiding in stability and muscle engagement. Recent trends show a significant increase in men participating in Pilates, drawn by the workout's intensity and the competitive challenge it presents. The shift in Pilates demographics suggests a changing perspective on fitness, focusing more on holistic well-being and muscle awareness than just physical gains.
GQ
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