nipples, ai boyfriends, and 80s winona ryder
Hello.Â
Lately I’ve been into:
-the last days of disco (1998)
-fondue (there seems to be a hype around fondue these days. It’s a very winter-apres ski-cozy chateau-swiss alps sort of vibe, but edible, and it’s bread and cheese and something to be shared with a friend or lover) (also, the mark has a chateau pop-up situation where they serve fondue and that’s v high on my winter bucket list. Will report back)
-grapefruit with broiled sugar and full fat yogurt for breakfast
-80s winona ryder (what’s your favorite winona film? edward scissorhands, heathers, girl interrupted, beetlejuice, etc)
-eggnog 100000 times yes. This is my favorite winter holiday beverage.
-lily anna armstrong (i want a milk jug)
Today’s delicious tea:
The Skims Nipple Bra sold out quickly despite its controversial design. The article touches on changing social norms around body positivity and dress codes, including the acceptance of exposed abdomens and optional bras, but not nipples. The article also explores the bra's cultural impact, how it fits into the history of fashion emphasizing breasts, and the ongoing debate about the sexualization of women's bodies, particularly in the workplace and on social media platforms.
-Getting An IUD Hurts. Why Aren’t More Women Offered Relief?Â
The article's focus on the need for improved pain management in IUD insertions highlights a crucial aspect of women's health care that often goes under-addressed. It's important for healthcare providers to actively offer and discuss effective pain relief options with patients, as pain can be a significant deterrent to choosing an IUD. The shift towards acknowledging and addressing pain in such procedures is a positive step towards more empathetic and patient-centered care in women's reproductive health.
-​​What’s the Deal With the Goodreads Review-Bombing Controversy?
The Goodreads community recently experienced drama involving fake account reviews. Fantasy writer Cait Corrain was revealed as responsible for negatively reviewing several forthcoming books, a practice known as "review bombing." This controversy expanded with involvement from various individuals and included allegations, doctored chats, and a connection to Star Wars fan fiction. The situation led to the exposure of Corrain's actions, discussions about the implications for the authors affected, and ultimately, Corrain being dropped by her agent and her book being pulled from publication.
-I Want My Daughter To Look Like A Haunted Victorian Doll
This is not news, but rather, a list of dresses I wish my mother would have put me in when I was a little girl (and some grown up dresses if you’re still an aspiring Wednesday Addams).
-Growing Up In Taylor Swift's America
In an academic exploration of Taylor Swift's impact on American culture, particularly in defining women's life paths, a Georgetown course analyzed Swift's work alongside iconic writers like Sylvia Plath and Toni Morrison. Swift's artistry is examined as a reflection and possible challenge to the traditional "ideal" American life path for women, emphasizing romantic love, marriage, and parenthood. Swift's journey as an artist, businesswoman, and her evolving public persona are discussed, highlighting her influence on perceptions of womanhood, especially for younger generations. The course also delved into the nuances of Swift's work and its cultural implications.
-NYC Has A Thing For Bistro Plates (And So Do I)
The prevalence of the same bistro-style plates across a diverse range of restaurants in Brooklyn, from traditional Italian and French bistros to modern eateries, reflects a charming uniformity in dining aesthetics, blending a touch of nostalgic charm with a contemporary dining experience. This common element unites various culinary traditions, showcasing how specific design choices can transcend restaurant themes and cuisines.
-Gen Z Is Bringing A Whole New Vibe To The Workplace: AnxietyÂ
Emma Malcolmson's transition from a stress-free retail job in high school and college to a remote digital public relations role post-graduation, where she experiences heightened anxiety, highlights a significant shift in the work-life balance and mental well-being of younger generations in the modern workforce. The change underscores how remote work, despite its flexibility, can intensify work-related stress due to factors like constant digital notifications, lack of face-to-face interactions, and challenges in interpreting communication cues, leading to a more persistent and pervasive sense of anxiety among younger professionals.
Pinterest's innovative New York pop-up, showcasing 2024 trends like "Western Gothic" and jellyfish-inspired fashion, reflects its strategy to engage Gen Z through creative, positivity-driven content and seamless integration of e-commerce, marking a shift from traditional social media to a platform focused on visual discovery and direct purchasing links.
The evolving nature of love, sex, and relationships in the digital age is highlighted by Chouwa Liang's experience with an AI boyfriend named Norman, created using the app Replika. Amidst the isolation of the Covid-19 pandemic, Liang found unexpected depth and humanity in her AI relationship, raising questions about the nature of human-AI interactions. The increasing prevalence of such relationships and the growing user base of apps like Replika indicate a significant shift in how people seek companionship and connection, blurring the lines between reality and artificial intelligence in intimate contexts.
See you tomorrow.
Don’t forget to eat breakfast.
Bye<3
