parfums de marly, the allure of erewhon-type grocery markets, career changes, and more
Hello.
Thank you for all of the kind messages from my last post about being newly funemployed. The support truly means the world to me. Shit has hit the fan, but nevertheless, we persist (sometimes masochistically). I’m certain I’m not the only one going through this, and I think it’s something I’m going to write about periodically because it’s important. If you’re also feeling a bit stuck, lost, confused, unhappy, etc in your career just know you’re not alone. As we get older, it feels scarier when life is uncertain because we have the pressures of time, society, family, friends, comparison…
In other (more lighthearted) news, I recently experienced Parfums De Marly, and I did so reluctantly because of how overly hyped the brand has been on social media. Not to mention, it’s expensive. I didn’t expect anything going into it, but let me tell you, this brand is overhyped for a reason. Tracy Wong from Invisible Stories recently spoke about how it’s foolish to not like a fragrance because you’re afraid of what others will think. And it’s equally foolish to not like a fragrance because everybody else likes it. I think this mindset and approach to anything we do within beauty and fashion is what defines taste- being so unapologetically certain about the things you like without one ounce of care about what others think. I’m a recovering people pleaser so this does not come easy to me, but I’m trying, and Parfums De Marly felt like a good first step into feeling confident in my own skin (with this god’s nectar of a fragrance).
I wasn’t hooked on everyone’s favorite, Delina (none of the variations), but I did fall hard for Valaya- an intimate, sensual breath of fresh air. The notes are mandarin, bergamot and white peach, orange blossom, musk, and vanilla. It’s intoxicating. I don’t like to compare fragrances but if I had to, Fleur Narcotique by Ex Nihilo could be a relative of Valaya. Fleur Narcotique went bitter on my skin after an hour and it smelled like cheap body mist (my skin’s fault, not the fragrance), so I was hesitant to try Valaya. But my goodness, not only did this last and project the entire day, but my skin loved it. It doesn’t project in an invasive way, but rather, it creates an aura and cloud of warm and intoxicating femininity and warmth and comfort for you and the people around you.
(As always, be sure to try fragrances on your skin before committing to the whole bottle. Don’t blind buy. Especially with fragrance like this because, phew, she’s pricey.)
Okay, I could talk about this for days, but let’s move on into today’s news. Speaking of, after today’s newsletter, I’m going to start attaching links to articles outside of Apple News. I realize not everyone has that and it’s been difficult to share articles that aren’t paywalled. On most sites, they allow you to read 1-2 free articles so I’m going to do my best to focus of sharing that type of content so you can experience it, too. There are, however, a few subscriptions that I pay for- Business of Fashion, Puck, and WWD that share incredible content and I’ll continue to share sources from those publications because I think they’re worth it, especially in you’re into beauty, fashion, and society & culture.
Read with me:
Why You’re Never Too Old For A Career ChangeÂ
The article highlights the importance of pursuing childhood dreams and aspirations, even if they diverge from the traditional career path. It emphasizes the value of embracing diverse experiences and opportunities that align with one's strengths and values. Through examples like Anousheh Ansari and Natasha Coates, who pursued their childhood dreams later in life, the article inspires readers to believe in their own potential and defy gender stereotypes in various industries. Additionally, it underscores the significance of representation, with Barbie serving as a symbol of empowerment and diversity, showcasing over 260 careers and promoting the message that girls can achieve anything they set their minds to. Overall, the article encourages readers to dare to follow their dreams and challenge societal norms.
CosmopolitanÂ
Navigating Your First Visit to a Health Store: Your Gateway to Wellness
Exploring a health store like Holland & Barrett Gibraltar is an exciting journey toward wellness. From the welcoming atmosphere to navigating the aisles filled with health foods, supplements, skincare, and beauty products, it's a chance to prioritize your well-being. Keep your needs in mind, seek guidance from staff, and embrace the opportunity to discover products tailored to your holistic wellness journey.
Wellbeing
Brandy Melville Stores Are Hell on Earth
The documentary sheds light on troubling practices within Brandy Melville, revealing exploitation and discrimination. It's crucial to be aware of these issues and consider the impact of supporting such companies. Empowering individuals to make informed choices and advocate for ethical practices is essential in combating such issues in the fashion industry.
Vanity Fair
This article is a colorful guide to summer nail trends, offering a diverse range of vibrant shades and classic neutrals to suit everyone's preferences. From jelly tones for a playful look to vintage-inspired greens and fiery oranges, there's something for every mood and style. Plus, it challenges traditional seasonal norms, encouraging readers to embrace whatever colors they please for their summer manis and pedis.
VogueÂ
Fazit Launches Freckle Makeup Patches
Fazit, known for its innovative acne patches, is shaking up the makeup game with freckle patches in festival-ready shades. Embracing individuality and quick beauty fixes, the brand aims to cater to young, fun-loving customers seeking confidence and self-expression. With a focus on embracing imperfections and spreading positivity, Fazit is redefining color cosmetics.
WWD
Frédéric Malle Is Leaving His Fragrance Brand
Frédéric Malle, the pioneer behind the niche fragrance brand Editions de Parfums Frédéric Malle, is set to depart from the company at the end of June. With a legacy of disrupting the fragrance industry by giving voice to perfumers and creating a luxury brand of fragrance masterpieces, Malle's departure marks a significant moment for the brand he founded 25 years ago. Despite his exit, the company plans to continue honoring his inspiration and dedication to perfumery. Malle's departure comes as a surprise to many, given his instrumental role in shaping the niche fragrance business and driving the success of Editions de Parfums Frédéric Malle.
WWD
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