milk fed q&a, cancelling cancel culture, pretty privilege, and smelling unique
Hello.
I’ve never done a q&a on here before and it feels like a good time to do one <3
I’m posting a link to a bb survey below where you can ask your questions- sky’s the limit, ask me anything. On Friday, I’ll answer them in my newsletter.
(You can also email questions)
Read with me:
Is “Getting Canceled” Canceled?
Katherine Dee's observation on the declining fear of "cancellation" reflects a broader shift in our digital and social landscapes. It's an intriguing paradox: as our online worlds become more fragmented, the concept of a universal consensus that can make or break someone's public standing seems increasingly outdated. This fragmentation, while complicating the narrative around public figures and their actions, may also offer a kind of freedom to express oneself without the looming threat of widespread backlash. It's a reminder that in a world brimming with diverse platforms and perspectives, the power dynamics of public opinion are constantly evolving.
Air Mail
A Psychologist Explains Why ‘Pretty Privilege’ Only Gets You So Far
The concept of "pretty privilege" suggests a complex interplay between attractiveness and societal advantage, yet its benefits are not as straightforward or universal as they might seem. Research and observation reveal that individual attributes and broader societal perceptions often overshadow the so-called beauty premium, indicating a shift towards valuing substance and character over mere aesthetics in personal and professional realms.
Forbes
Embracing a bit of pessimism or grumpiness, as odd as it may seem, can be quite beneficial, leading to improved decision-making, negotiations, and even marital stability. This counterintuitive approach, backed by neuroscience, suggests that negative emotions can enhance creativity, motivation, and analysis, encouraging us to address and solve the issues at hand more effectively.
Inc
Everyone Wants To Smell Rare And Different
Niche perfumes are changing the fragrance game by emphasizing individuality over mass appeal, allowing wearers to express their unique stories and preferences through scent. This trend towards rare and personalized perfumes not only fosters a deeper connection between the wearer and their fragrance but also builds a community of like-minded enthusiasts who value authenticity and creativity in their olfactory choices.
Elle
For Acne Studios’ First Fragrance, Frédéric Malle Tapped the Youngest Nose Yet
Frédéric Malle's collaboration with young perfumer Suzy Le Helley and Acne Studios’ Jonny Johansson resulted in a unique fragrance that captures the essence of comfort and innovation. This partnership not only signifies a shift towards embracing fresh talent in the perfume industry but also highlights the power of scent in fashion and personal identity, marking a promising start for Acne Studios in the fragrance world.
Vogue
The erratic climate patterns, driven by climate change, are threatening the reliability of summer's stone fruits, turning anticipated pleasures into potential disappointments. As farmers and researchers adapt by considering more resilient, alternative crops, the changing weather patterns signal a shift in what may define the flavors of future summers, posing challenges to traditional fruit cultivation and possibly altering the sweet tastes we've come to cherish.
The Atlantic
Is Everyone Dating Pathological Liars Now?
The surge in women sharing their experiences with deceitful partners online has created a powerful movement of solidarity and awareness, challenging the stigma of being deceived in love. This trend is not only empowering women to recognize and call out the red flags in their relationships but also helping to dismantle the societal pressure to stay silent about such manipulative behaviors.
New York Magazine
The conversation surrounding trans kids and their rights is heating up, with a pushback against the medicalization of gender identity and the denial of biological sex's significance. This discourse challenges us to rethink our approach to gender-affirming care, advocating for a model that recognizes the inherent right of individuals, regardless of age, to explore and modify their gender and biological sex. This shift invites a broader understanding of freedom and autonomy, emphasizing the need for societal acceptance and support rather than restriction and skepticism.
New York Magazine
That’s all for today.
Thank you for your questions.
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