i'm watching coraline again, dad culture, and the sex recession
Hello.
It’s been so moody and rainy here in New York which can only mean one thing: watching coraline again, baking seasonally, and engaging in all the cozy indoor activities. Coraline is appropriate for every season. You can’t fight me on this.
I’ve been having a lot of fun making this spring bucket list, but I lied to you because I said I would have it this week and I haven’t had the time to finish writing it so I’m sorry. But… it will be delivered to your inbox soon.
Some random things that have brought me joy recently:
-the easter section at target with all of the bunnies and jelly beans
-speaking of jelly beans, will you still read my newsletter if I told you I love black licorice jelly beans?
-museums on rainy days
-baking. food is my first love (as mentioned before). I’ve been baking scones, muffins, carrot cake, and all the spring treats. I’ve also been reading cookbooks for fun
-making hand written grocery lists
-soy milk
-opopanax diptyque candle cold cloudy days
-The Bluest Eye by Toni Morrison
Okay, ready for some reading?
Read with me:
The Problem With Seeing Our Children’s Success As Our Own
It's a fine line between supporting our children and projecting our unfulfilled ambitions onto them. While it's natural to want the best for our kids, we must also guard against making their achievements the sole source of our happiness. Embracing our individual dreams and aspirations, separate from our roles as parents, is vital for our well-being and teaches our children the importance of personal fulfillment alongside family support.
British Vogue
Jennifer Croft's novel, "The Extinction of Irena Rey," delves into the complex dynamics of translation, challenging the traditional invisibility of translators and pondering the dominance of the English language in literature. Through a story that blurs the lines between authors and translators, Croft invites readers to reconsider notions of authorship and the impact of linguistic power dynamics on literary works.
The Atlantic
Dad Culture Has Nothing To Do With Parenting
While modern "dad culture" jests about trivial things like "dad bods" and "dad rock," it skims over the evolving role of fathers who are increasingly hands-on in parenting. The stereotype lags behind, overshadowing the hard work and care dads put into raising their children, and ignoring the systemic issues like lack of affordable childcare and parental leave that affect all parents, not just moms.
The Atlantic
An Era Of New Moon Exploration Is Among Us
The Artemis program is reigniting lunar exploration with a mix of public and private initiatives, aiming for sustainable human presence and potential commercial exploitation. This ambitious endeavor involves international collaboration, challenging the traditional paradigms of space exploration and possibly reshaping our lunar aspirations.
The New Yorker
TikTok's pivot to 2004 nostalgia, led by millennials, is intriguing. It highlights a collective yearning for simpler times, despite being on the forefront of digital innovation. This return to familiar cultural touchstones on a platform known for shaping future trends underlines the cyclical nature of digital culture and our enduring connection to the past.
Wired
The Problem With Our Need To Achieve
Samuel T. Wilkinson discusses our flawed assumption that achievements lead to happiness, highlighting how our happiness baseline quickly adjusts due to hedonic adaptation. He emphasizes that enduring happiness comes from nurturing relationships rather than fleeting successes.
Time
Oversensitive And Overreactive: What Is Nervous System Dysregulation And How Can It Be Resolved?
Nervous system dysregulation, increasingly recognized for its role in various health issues, involves an imbalance in our body's response system, leading to both physical and emotional ailments. Understanding and addressing it through methods like somatic experiencing or mindfulness can pave the way for better managing stress and improving overall well-being.
The Guardian
Can Startups Solve The Loneliness Epidemic?
Entrepreneurs, like Daybreaker co-founder Radha Agrawal, are addressing the loneliness epidemic with ventures like Belong Center, which promotes connection through activities like meditation and active listening. With the support of investors and board members like Kimbal Musk, these initiatives offer new ways to foster community and combat isolation, expanding across various cities with plans for broader educational and entertainment projects aimed at enhancing social bonds.
The Wall Street Journal
Kara Swisher's memoir "Burn Book" offers an insider's look into the tech giants of Silicon Valley, revealing their personalities, decisions, and how these have shaped the digital world we live in today. Swisher, a seasoned technology journalist, shares anecdotes from the early dot-com era, including bizarre party antics and the evolution of tech leaders from idealistic innovators to powerful, often isolated figures. Swisher's insights underscore the immense influence these individuals have on society and highlight the need for accountability and regulation in the tech industry. Her conversations with figures like Mark Zuckerberg and Elon Musk shed light on their motivations and the impact of their actions, urging us to consider the broader implications of technology on our lives.
The Atlantic
Millennials Will Be The Richest Generation Ever, But Who Gets That Wealth Is Down To Luck
Millennials, often dubbed society's stepchildren, are predicted to inherit unprecedented wealth, but it's a catch. This inheritance will only amplify the existing divide, highlighting how success is increasingly a matter of family wealth rather than merit. This shift could reshape attitudes towards effort, success, and fairness, potentially affecting mental health and societal dynamics profoundly.
The Guardian
Gen Z's once reported aversion to sex seems to be a thing of the past, with 20% now engaging in daily sexual activities and a notable increase in those prioritizing sexual adventure and confidence. This shift, alongside a mixed relationship with dating apps, reflects changing dynamics in intimacy and authenticity among younger generations.
Dazed
See you tomorrow.
Bye <3
