realistically monica, aspiring phoebe

Good morning. Between now and February feels like a fever dream. It’s a rollercoaster of emotions, holiday chaos, holiday excitement, post holiday depression, then the harsh quiet (cold) lull of January. Okay, I’m already starting off on a negative note and I don’t want to leave you with bad vibes. I just needed someone to commiserate with. So thank you for being here to listen. 

Someone left a comment on my tiktok about creating some sort of Discord thread for us to discuss these articles and internet musings on a deeper level with one another. What a great idea, right? Let me brainstorm some ideas. I’m going to look into Discord and Patreon and figure something out. I’ll keep you posted. 

On that note, I have a slew of articles to send you today and tomorrow. 

Enjoy this morning's tea:

-An Adult’s Guide to Social Skills, for Those Who Were Never Taught

The article emphasizes the importance of developing social skills, which unlike academic subjects, are often learned through experience. Key aspects include emotional intelligence, self-awareness, self-regulation, internal motivation, empathy, and effective socialization. It highlights the challenges faced by those who did not learn these skills as children, possibly due to lack of exposure, mental health issues, or absence of positive role models. The article suggests that emotional intelligence is crucial for understanding and improving social interactions. It covers practical scenarios like constructively confronting someone, speaking up in a group, making friends as an adult, and initiating conversations with strangers, offering strategies for each. The overall message is that while social skills can be complex, they are manageable with awareness and practice.

-My Roman Empire: We Don't Talk About Monica Geller's Style Enough

I read somewhere: “realistically monica, aspiring phoebe” and I’ve never felt more understood.

While Rachel Green in Friends, often steals the spotlight as the show's fashion icon, Monica Geller quietly reigns with her own distinct style blend of '90s flair and minimalist chic. Monica's wardrobe, a curated mix of casual athleisure and polished workwear, artfully combines muted tones and classic trends, establishing a timeless elegance that transcends decades and continues to inspire today's fashion narratives.

Monica forever.