sad girl season, mr. darcy complex, and oatmilk is dead
Hello.
Are we officially entering into post holiday sad girl season?
We’re in the midst of that weird week between Christmas and New Years when nobody knows what day it is.
It’s also that time of year when people start thinking about resolutions, goals, and aspirations for the new year. I know a lot of people complain about the cliche of making new year's resolutions, but I like them. More than anything, I believe the new year serves as a reminder- a day to check in with yourself and set intentions for the future. It’s special and intimate, especially if you keep your goals hidden and tucked away in your notes app.
I’ve been wanting this Buly1803 candle for awhile. They didn’t have the color I wanted, but the scent is so heavenly. I don’t want to burn it I love it so much. Why do we wait to burn the good candles?
Okay, let’s get into some articles and news, shall we?
-Why Do I Feel Loneliest Around Family?
The narrative captures the poignant heartache of someone who, after leaving home to pursue dreams, grapples with the inevitable drift from familial intimacy. This deep-seated feeling of exclusion and loneliness, even amidst loved ones, underscores the complex emotional terrain of physical distance and life's divergent paths. The writer's internal conflict between the life built and the life left behind resonates with anyone who's ever had to balance personal aspirations with the longing for a shared past and the painful realization of becoming a visitor in their own home.
-How I Learned to Stop Being a “Chill Girl” and Start Being Me
In the journey from girlhood to womanhood, the pressure to embody the "chill girl" persona—a seemingly unfazed and carefree attitude—can be an exhausting façade, masking the genuine complexities of individual needs and emotions. Rejecting this cultural expectation and embracing the full spectrum of feelings is a step towards authenticity and self-acceptance, recognizing that expressing needs and setting boundaries is not only healthy but necessary. This shift from performing to being encourages a more honest, unapologetic, and ultimately fulfilling life, where personal peace and well-being are prioritized over societal approval.
-It’s My Party and I’ll Read If I Want To
The narrative recounts a personal experience at Reading Rhythms, a social event in Brooklyn where participants read in a communal, but silent, setting, contrasting the solitary act of reading with the collective experience of sharing thoughts and spaces with others, reflecting a novel approach to reviving literature appreciation in a convivial atmosphere.
"The Darcy Myth" critiques the romanticization of problematic heroes like Mr. Darcy in literature and media, arguing that such portrayals influence readers to accept or excuse toxic behaviors, ultimately questioning the impact of these character archetypes on societal attitudes towards relationships and gender dynamics.
-How Much Does It Cost To Live Like This
The article explores the diverse dreams and aspirations of young New Yorkers, detailing the exact costs associated with achieving their ideal lifestyles. From a desire for a Brooklyn Heights brownstone and a life of cultural engagements to a simpler existence in Hudson with a focus on sewing and quality family time, each individual's vision is meticulously calculated. The costs include housing, education, transportation, health and wellness, leisure activities, and more, providing a realistic financial picture of what it would take to turn these dreams into reality in one of the world's most expensive cities. The piece is a blend of aspiration and financial planning, offering a unique look at the hopes of a generation and the stark monetary realities they face.
The text describes how life's joyful events have become stress-inducing extravaganzas due to societal pressures, technological tethering, and a shift away from valuing leisure and genuine connection.
While oat milk tastes good and has become popular in supermarkets and cafes, it might not be the healthiest option due to its potential to spike blood sugar levels, with experts suggesting cow's milk or nut milks as better alternatives for balanced glucose content.
-Stay At Home Girlfriends Are Having A Moment
The "stay-at-home girlfriend" (SAHG) trend on TikTok showcases young women living a life of leisure and self-care while supporting their boyfriends with tasks like cooking and housekeeping, reflecting a shift away from hustle culture towards aspirations of a softer life, yet this seemingly perfect lifestyle also hides challenges like financial dependency, professional struggles, and personal boredom.
The piece humorously and insightfully delves into the contemporary cultural fixation with noses, juxtaposing the celebration of distinctive, prominent profiles in entertainment with the rising trend of personalized and subtle rhinoplasties. It reflects a societal dichotomy where authenticity and individuality in physical features are both glorified and refined, revealing the complex attitudes towards beauty and self-expression in the modern age.
That’s all for today.
Bye <3
