witchy vibes, tumblr's thinspiration era, and teaching people how to parent
Hello.
Have you eaten breakfast today?
I’m in a witchy mood (I’m always in a witchy mood), because everyday is october in my world.
Lately I’ve been watching witchy films and tv shows like Bewitched (1964), Kiki’s Delivery Service (1989), The Love Witch (2016), The Craft (1996), Coraline (2009) (not witchy, but spooky), The Witches of Eastwick (1987), Rosemary’s Baby (1968), etc.
Have you seen Wednesday? (the netflix tv show). I truly believe that there are two types of girls in this world: the Wednesday Addams girl and the Edin Sinclair girl. Wednesday Addams is characterized by her macabre and gothic aesthetic, often wearing a black dress with a white collar, coupled with her dark hair and stoic demeanor, symbolizing her fascination with the morbid and the supernatural. Edin Sinclair is portrayed as a contemporary and stylish character, reflecting a modern take on teenage fashion and attitude. She’s girlie, and bright, and bubbly. She’s a girl’s girl. Unlike the traditional gothic aesthetic associated with the Addams Family, Edin's vibrant personality contrasts with Wednesday's darker, more somber demeanor.
All this to say, I’ve always been a Wednesday. As I’ve gotten older I’ve learned to love things outside of my “comfort aesthetic” and it’s been fun exploring different ways to dress and different media and literature to consume. This reminds me of the recent discourse I’ve seen on social media about the power of not conforming to one specific aesthetic. I like it.
Sunday thoughts, you see ^^
Okay, moving on. I have a delusional February wishlist that I’ll share with you tomorrow even though nobody asked.
Let’s get into today’s news. At the end, I’m sharing some recent media consumption: what I’m reading, watching, listening to, etc.
News:
The article highlights the nuanced complexities of financial disparity within relationships, underscoring the importance of communication and understanding over monetary equality, and challenging the notion that love can be untouched by the realities of economic differences.
The Guardian
The article delves into the modern conundrum faced by artists and creators in the digital age, where the incessant need for self-promotion and personal branding on platforms like TikTok has become an inescapable part of the artistic process, often overshadowing the essence of art itself and leading to a conflict between commercial success and authentic creativity.
Vox
Tumblr’s Thinspiration Era Still Haunts Us, From Thigh Gaps to Legging Legs
The resurgence of harmful beauty standards like "legging legs," reminiscent of the "thigh gap" obsession from the Tumblr era, highlights the enduring impact of early internet culture on body image and self-esteem, prompting a need for critical reflection and resistance against such toxic trends to foster a healthier online environment.
Vice
Simple Pleasures and Slow Living with L'Appartement 4F
L'Appartement 4F embodies the essence of slow living and conscious consumption through its meticulous baking process and ethos, offering a sanctuary in Brooklyn Heights where time seems to pause, inviting patrons to savor life's simple pleasures, one croissant at a time.
Coveteur
Social Media Is Warping History
Social media's distillation of history into bite-sized, engaging snippets democratizes knowledge but also risks diluting its complexity, blending the allure of entertainment with the peril of misinformation, challenging users to discern between captivating storytelling and historical accuracy.
The Walrus
Face-To-Face, Hip-To-Hip Friendships Help Us Live Longer- So Let’s Prioritize Them
The article emphasizes the profound impact of genuine, "face-to-face, hip-to-hip" friendships on our well-being, contrasting the superficial connections often maintained through digital platforms. It highlights how such deep bonds not only enhance our happiness but also have tangible health benefits, underscoring the importance of nurturing these relationships amidst the modern challenges of isolation and digital superficiality.
The Guardian
Ina Garten’s Memoir Is On The Way
Ina Garten's upcoming memoir, set to release on October 1st, 2024, promises to be a rich addition to the culinary and cultural landscape, offering fans and readers alike a deeper insight into the life of the celebrated chef, author, and TV host. With her laid-back approach to cooking and entertaining, Garten has become a comforting presence in many homes, and her memoir is anticipated to not only share her journey but also inspire readers to embrace their own stories and paths.
New York Magazine
Why Don’t We Teach People How To Parent?
The article delves into the paradox of parenting in modern America, where despite escalating expectations and an abundance of advice, many parents feel unprepared for the complexities of child-rearing. It contrasts the communal, experiential learning of the past with today's more isolated, information-saturated environment, highlighting a gap in formal parenting education. This disconnect not only leaves parents grappling with challenges in isolation but also perpetuates a cycle of stress and inadequacy, underscoring the need for accessible, non-stigmatized resources to support parents in their crucial role.
The Atlantic
Kiki’s Delivery Service is the best ghibli film.
Media Consumption:
Watching:
Why You’re Probably Not Doing Your “Dream Job”
Cinema:
The Love Witch (2016)
The Three Lives Of Thomasina (1963)
I’M WATCHING NORMAL PEOPLE AGAIN DON’T JUDGE ME
Reading:
The Beauty Myth by Naomi Wolf
A novel that examines how beauty standards, perpetuated by the media and societal norms, serve as a form of control over women, impacting their self-esteem, relationships, and professional lives. Wolf argues that these unattainable ideals of beauty are a reaction to women's growing societal power, designed to undermine their progress by shifting their focus to physical appearance.
Les Enfants Terribles by Jean Cocteau
The complex and intense relationship between two siblings, Elisabeth and Paul, who create a private world filled with fantasy and games that ultimately leads to their destruction. Their intricate bond isolates them from the outside world, blurring the lines between reality and imagination, and culminates in a tragic conclusion.
Listening:
Hidden Brain Podcast- escaping perfectionism ep
That’s all for today.
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Bye.
Yessss would love more witchy vibes :)