articles to consume while eating breakfast in bed

hello.

i’m in the process of interviewing for (one of) my dream jobs. i have final rounds monday and tuesday. in the past, i’ve been terribly pessimistic about interviews, despite performing well on them. i tell my brain to not get my hopes up, even though i always do. so this time around, regardless of what happens, i’m going to be optimistic knowing damn well my hopes will be high despite my attitude. i cringe and my brain feels fuzzy whenever i read about manifesting or other popular woo woo tactics, but i have no other option at this point. que cera cera, i guess?

interviews are absolutely terrifying, don’t you agree? i’m a terrible speaker, that’s why i write. often times, when i speak in interviews, i stop breathing and walk away from them feeling as if i had just run a marathon and the wind got knocked out of me. this is why the people i’m closest to irl have zero clue as to how i ended up working as a corporate slave.

i will be watching films and burying myself in literature this weekend to drown out my anxieties.

speaking of weekend activites, i’ve compiled a list of interesting articles for you to consume over breakfast in bed or for a late afternoon reading session in the park.

read with me:

Are You the Same Person You Used to Be?

This article explores the concept of personal identity over time, examining how people change or stay the same throughout their lives. It delves into psychological and philosophical perspectives, discussing factors like memory, personality, and life experiences. The piece also considers how self-perception and external influences shape our sense of continuity or transformation.

The New Yorker

Meet the Queen of the Trad Wives and Her Eight Children

This article it gutting. Hannah talks about her role in the "trad wives" movement that promotes traditional homemaking roles for women. She is continuously interrupted by her husband. The whole thing makes me ill. Go watch videos about it on Tiktok if you’re curious about it and want to further investigate. As a former ballerina, this article shook me.

The Times

Hanging Out: The Radical Power of Killing Time

Sheila Liming's book Hanging Out addresses the decline of casual social interactions in modern society and argues for their importance. Liming explores how unstructured time with friends fosters deeper connections and enhances well-being, countering the isolation fostered by digital communication and busy schedules. The book highlights the need to reclaim and prioritize these moments to strengthen social bonds and community. Slate

Getting Lost in the World's Largest Stack of Menus

This article takes readers through the fascinating world of the world's largest collection of menus. It delves into the historical and cultural significance of these documents, exploring how menus reflect changing culinary trends and societal shifts. The collection offers a unique lens into the evolution of dining and food culture over time, highlighting the stories behind the menus and the people who collected them.

Taste

What is the Millennial Mid-Life Crisis Novel?

This article explores the emerging genre of Millennial mid-life crisis novels, which capture the unique anxieties and existential struggles faced by Millennials as they approach middle age. It examines themes such as economic instability, digital life, and shifting cultural expectations. These novels reflect the distinctive pressures and realities of Millennial adulthood, offering insight into the generation's evolving identity.

Lit Hub

Empowering Eeriness: How Gothic Romances Helped Alisa Alering Escape the Misery of a Small Town

This article discusses how Alisa Alering found solace and empowerment through Gothic romance novels during her upbringing in a small, oppressive town. These novels provided her with a sense of escape and inspiration, helping her navigate the challenges of her environment. The piece highlights the transformative power of literature in offering hope and resilience.

Lit Hub

Take a Seat: The Long Table is an Antidote to Loneliness

This article explores the concept of the long table as a solution to social isolation and loneliness. It emphasizes how communal dining experiences, facilitated by long tables, can foster connection and a sense of belonging. The piece argues that such arrangements encourage interaction and inclusivity, providing an antidote to the modern epidemic of loneliness.

Psyche

To Thrive, Children Need to Experience Awe – And You Can Help

This article emphasizes the importance of awe in children's development, highlighting how experiences that inspire wonder and amazement can boost their emotional and cognitive growth. It suggests practical ways parents and caregivers can create opportunities for awe, such as exploring nature, engaging in creative activities, and fostering curiosity. The piece underscores that awe can significantly enhance a child's well-being and resilience.

Psyche

The Dirt on Pig Pen

This article delves into the life and career of Ron "Pig Pen" McKernan, a founding member of the Grateful Dead. It explores his influence on the band's early sound and his role in shaping their musical identity. The piece also highlights his struggles with health issues and his eventual departure from the band, providing a nuanced portrait of this key figure in rock history. Astra

Nameless Feeling

This article examines the elusive and often indescribable emotions that arise in response to modern life's complexities. It explores how contemporary culture, technology, and social dynamics contribute to these nameless feelings, highlighting the challenges of articulating and understanding them. The piece emphasizes the importance of acknowledging and exploring these emotions to better navigate personal and collective experiences.

Real Life

The Cookie Jar Trend: A Collector’s Appreciation

This article delves into the history and resurgence of cookie jar collecting, tracing its roots back to mid-20th century Americana. It explores how cookie jars, once everyday kitchen items, have become sought-after collectibles. The piece highlights notable designs, the cultural significance of these whimsical containers, and the passionate community of collectors who cherish them for their nostalgic value.

Eater

J Dilla’s Hip-Hop Revolution

This article from The New York Times explores the profound influence of J Dilla on hip-hop, focusing on his innovative production techniques and his roots in Detroit. It highlights his lasting legacy in shaping the sound and direction of the genre, emphasizing the unique elements he brought to music production that continue to inspire artists today.

The New York Times

okay, that’s all I have for today. i hope you enjoy.

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