dear reader, will you take this poll for me? (+ articles and news)
Dear Reader,
Before we get into today’s news, I’m curious about your opinion(s) on a few fun poll questions I have to make this newsletter more enjoyable for you.
The breadth of my newsletters consists of interesting (and mostly recent) articles with my short analysis below. I also enjoy sharing and recommending things I’m currently loving, products, snacks, music playlists, films, etc. I pull articles from various news platforms and publications. The subject matter ranges, but I typically share articles about internet culture/ society, fashion/ beauty, nyc tidbits, philosophy/ psychology, and food. So my question for you is: What are your favorite articles to read? Do you like variety? Do you prefer specific subjects/ niches? Answer below. (This helps exponentially. I love you all and thank you for being here <3)
Lastly, I would love to hear from you. My email door is always open if you ever want to chat, write in suggestions, ask questions, etc.
Let’s move into today’s news:
The article delves into the concept of 'seasons' in life, a metaphorical way to describe phases of change, challenge, or growth, transcending its religious origins to find relevance in mainstream mental health and self-help. It underscores the acceptance and normalization of life's ebbs and flows, recognizing that not all periods are of equal intensity or focus and that it's okay to prioritize different aspects of life at different times, ultimately contributing to a more balanced and realistic approach to personal and professional life.
-Why Do I Get The Ick When Men Open Up To Me?
This narrative insightfully captures the internal conflict between the desire for light-hearted, superficial interactions and the deeper, more meaningful connections that can unexpectedly arise in relationships. It illustrates the protagonist's initial frustration with a man's openness about his personal struggles, reflecting societal expectations of casual encounters, and her eventual realization that genuine emotional support and authentic communication are valuable, even in budding relationships. This shift in perspective challenges the superficial norms of socializing, revealing the importance and complexity of emotional labor in human connections.
-Bet On Red: The Color Of The Season
I don’t think red is going anywhere anytime soon. But I predict that blue will be the next color obsession- an electric vibrant blue.
This analysis highlights a generational shift in adolescent experiences, contrasting the social behaviors of Gen X and Gen Z. The data from the American Enterprise Institute report reveals a significant decline in traditional teenage activities among Gen Z, such as in-person socializing, romantic relationships, and participation in sports or outdoor activities, suggesting a profound impact of technology and changing societal norms on the formation of adolescent experiences and their long-term effects on personal development.
Kaitlyn and Lizzie's culinary journey, inspired by Martha Stewart and internet memes, transforms party planning into a whimsical blend of history, innovation, and playfulness. Their quest, from historical hors d'oeuvres to futuristic Jell-O creations, illustrates an adventurous and joyful approach to reimagining the art of entertaining.
In this evocative reflection on the modern college application process, the writer captures the emotional turbulence of awaiting university acceptance or rejection in an era dominated by social media. The process, once private and introspective, has transformed into a public spectacle, where every success and failure is magnified through the lens of digital scrutiny, fostering an environment rife with anticipation, envy, and a poignant sense of loss for paths not taken.
-Match Collecting Has Become A New Yorker’s Way Of Knowing The City
Samantha Friedman's matchbook collection, more than just a quirky hobby, becomes a vibrant and intimate map of New York City's culinary landscape, each tiny memento telling a unique story of the city's diverse dining scenes. Her journey, fueled by a mix of compulsive curiosity and a love for the city’s hidden gems, transforms these ephemeral items into a rich tapestry of memories and discoveries, capturing the essence of iconic eateries and the fleeting nature of urban experiences.
-Has The Digital Age Ruined Dating?
Alana Cloud-Robinson's exploration into modern romance reveals a bleak landscape where digital disconnection and self-protective bravado have replaced genuine emotional engagement, turning the quest for love into a cynical game of appearances and detachment. Her insights suggest that the downfall of romance isn't just a societal shift but a collective choice, urging individuals to break the cycle by embracing authenticity and vulnerability in their search for genuine connections.
That’s all for now.
Have you eaten today? (Coffee doesn’t count)
Have you drank water?
Will you go get a treat this afternoon? Gingerbread sounds delicious. Or a salty dark chocolate chip cookie with milk.
Bye <3
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